Winner Vs Losers

The Winners is always part of the answer.
The Losers is always part of the problem.
The Winners always has a program.
The Losers always has an excuse.
The Winners says. " Let me do it for you. "
The Losers says. " That is not my job. "
The Winners sees an answer for every problem.
The Losers sees a problem for every answer.
The Winners says. " It may be difficult but it is possible. "
The Losers says." It may be possible but it is too difficult. "
When a Winners makes a mistake. he says. " I was wrong. "
When a Losers makes a mistake. he says. " It wasn't my fault."
A Winners makes commitments.
A Losers makes promises.
Winners have dream.
Losers have schemes.
Winners say. " I must do something. "
Losers say. " Something must be done. "
Winners are part of the team.
Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain.
Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities.
Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win-win.
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential.
Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat.
Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say.
Losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words.
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things.
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy. " Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you."
Losers follow the philosophy. " Do it to other before they do it to you. "
Winners make it happen.
Losers let it happen.
Winner plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.

Points on How to improve your life

Personality :
01. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
02. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
03. Don't over do; keep your limits.
04. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does.
05. Don't waste your precious energy gossip.
06. Dream more while you are awake.
07. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need...
08. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his / her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
09. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate other.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more.
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.


Community :
15. Call your family often.
16. Each day give some thing good to others.
17. Forgive everyone for everything.
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
20. What other people think of you is none of your business.
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.


Life :
22. Put God first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. God heals everything.
24. Do the right things.
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
27. The best is yet to come.
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank God for it.
30. If you know God you will always be happy. So be happy.